General Question

[alb]

Does a girl loses attraction if she likes you, but you have missed many opportunities to ask her out? Does this ruin your chances?

[Senotsu]

I'd think yes, girls don't seem to like guys who play hard to get(I've been told). I'm told that I've turned off a girl by accident by not pursuing her when I had the opportunity to.

[pippy longstocking]

She might just have given up and moved onto to date someone else ..doesn't mean she has lost attraction , but just lack of interest on your part might just mean she has lost interest too .

 

Just ask her out ...

[DancingFool]

Generally speaking, people do not stay interested forever. If you take too long, miss too many opportunities, eventually they will lose interest and look elsewhere.

 

However, the only true way to find out if you have a chance or not is to ask her out. That's it. It's the old you lose 100% of the shots you don't take deal, so take the shot and see what happens. The worst that can happen is you'll be exactly where you are now but without having to wonder if she has moved on. So even if she rejects you, you are still better off than stressing and wondering what if.