Still small talk after 1 month??

[red12]

Ok me and my gf still have small talk and we have been together over a month and it seems like we still cant have any real good convo. What do I do I dont know what to do it's like pulling teeth to try and get her to talk. We have these every long silence on the phone for like 15 mins or more it really sucks but when where in person we talk more than we do on the phone im not that big on talking on the phone either but it's just weird you would think she is female shes got something to talk about helllllllllllllpp.

[Mr. B]

...perhaps you could bring up the subject of awkward silences.

[boredguy]

hmm... this sounds a lot like me and my ex. Not havnig conversations is not a good thing. perhaps you should try to find something that really gets her worked up (stimulating arguments are always good)

[red12]

Well I dont know about the arugument thing. But it's hard to get anything out of her to actually have a decent convo. Every thing I talk to her about it's like a one word answer. I try my best not to ask her one word answers. Maybe we have nothing in common im not for shere some times I think we dont then other times I do.

[DivineNess]

i'm sorry to say this but i think ur relationship is doomed. you two probably just have physical attraction towards each other which is not enough to sustain a relationship.