Fiancee break N/C after 3 weeks..Confused..

[sidhat]

After breaking up 4 years relationship I go in N/C phase with my fiancee,,It was really hard for me and depressed condistion ,, but enotalone.com helped me alot and my family supports me to maintain myself..

Yesterday night 11:00 pm i was watchin scare tactics on TV i got call on my cell phone,,and I got shocked after looking my caller ID i didnt picked up my cell phone then after minutes I got call on my home phone i didnt pick up and then again she called me on my cell phone also didnt picked up.. like after thinking 3 minutes I called her back and here is the communication,,

 

Me..hello..

she ... hey

me .. how r u ?

she,, i am fine..

me.. Is everything OK .. u called me..I coulnt picked up my phone bcoz I was in restroom..

she.. aaooo..yeah I just wondering that its been 3 weeks we didnt talk..

me... OH ic..

she.. did you register for class for college..

me .. I did...

she..how many..

me ... only 1 class..bcoz of job..

me.. how your work going.?

she..yeah its going fine I might have to work on friday chrismas eve night also bcoz they are soo busy..

me ..OH

she... hows your MOM and DAD..

me ... they are fine..

me ... I need to go now..

she .. ohh ok..

me .. bye

she... bye..

 

She was really polite and calm and me too..

 

I am confused what she wants?? is my N/C works?? or should i keep in NC condition with her.. ?

 

thanks for everybody helped for that on this site..

 

~Sid..

[hockeyboy]

i must say you kept your composure well. im assuming you wanted to talk more but you didnt cause your tying to play by the "rules"? or did you really have to go?

[sidhat]

Thanks for reply hockeyboy..

 

No,, i just want to minimize the communication,, just want to show her that I am good without you..Yeah I am trying to play the rules.. but I am just confused that why she called me after 3 weeks.. Is she just checking me that what I am doing and feeling..or something else..

[hockeyboy]

probably to early to tell. but doing what your doing is only going to help you.