bostonsfinest2 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Share Posted February 28, 2014 I really am man I promised I won't get with another girl she said the same. I won't break another promise to her.its like yesterday she was in love with me and she talksTo her from the never back at square one with her decide you want to be upset with me.I just wish you could sit back and realize that I've been telling the truth and look at all the situations that I told myself and knowing that telling her these things would hurt her but I could be honest about it. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Share Posted February 28, 2014 Like I said it's my fault in the end.I have learned from this. I haven't even texted another girl in like a week.I have no desire to .I'm genuinely trying to fix me. Link to comment
bison67 Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 One thing that i thought about after my girl left me that you should consider is this, how would you feel if you caught them doing the exact same things we did? Probably not to thrilled, i dont blame her for leaving me, or you. But its up to us to learn from mistakes and maybe get another chance with them, or not make the same mistakes with the next one. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Share Posted February 28, 2014 I understand. I know why this happened.I just don't understand she sent nee daily emails if what she is doing and thinking of me.saying she could see this work again.still thinks I'm the one.Then bam last night she's done again.says she can't get over it Link to comment
bison67 Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Hey man my ex did the exact same things, said i was the one, missed me, saw a future with me, but was still so hurt she wasnt ready. We tried to hangout 5 weeks after the BU and it wasnt a good idea at all, far to soon and she hadnt healed yet, nor had I. Give it some time before you reach out to her, and prove to yourself that you have changed over the next few months, thats what im doing, give her space and let her be free and have her live her life without you, that will show if she truly wants you. Been 5 weeks since i have talked to my ex and is it hard, hardest thing i have ever done, especailly cause i know she is sleeping with another guy for fun... She will heal with time and not seeing you, then you may have another shot. All we can do brother. Private message me if you wanna talk more about your situation. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Share Posted February 28, 2014 If I only knew how to do that lol.she has my hat going to see her today might have her meet me at lunch and lay all my cards on the table. Just put the ball on her court.let her have her space and give me time to keep improving Link to comment
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