What should we talk about?

[chi-tennotsukai]

Ok, well, i am now dating someone, but we dont know what to talk about. He calls me and every so often its just plain silence. It lasts for like a minute...lol. Plz Help Me!!!!

[blah2oo4]

maybe you should ask him how his day has gone? try to talk about a certain thing that he wont be uncomfortable with, like his interests, ask him what he is interested in.... just that sorta stuff, when the phone goes quiet, try to talk to him, im sure he is just as shy as you are.

Good Luck... hope this advice helps

 

[FleX]

Don't get caught up in the daily report... save it for the dates. The telepone kills any sense of mystery and challenge for both parties. coming from a guys point of view I only call the girl to make the date and do some minor chit chat. By talking on the phone things get stale fast.