been two weeks and love is still there...

[Mr_Turtle]

My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago because i was controlling, which i admited i was and told her that i had changed. The reason i was controlling was because 9 months ago she had done somthing very bad, and only told me 5 months ago, and i had a grudge. But i had gotten over it and was starting to become less and less controlling, she said she saw no change and broke it off. Now, 2 weeks later, she still says she loves me the same amount as she always did, but does not want to be in a controlling relationship. She says maybe in the future but not now.

 

My question is, what can i do to show her i have changed? and also, has anyone had past experiences like this?

 

any help would be appreciated

[JoyieGracie]

To show her you are not controlling you need to give her space, and especially yourself space from her to live your own lives. After a few weeks or months, see if it'll work.

 

But here's the deal: If she doesn't want you back, then you need to move on. Sure 11 months seems like a long time, and I do believe you are still in love. But it is possible to move on and love another.

 

I was in a relationship for almost 3 years when he dumped me. And though it took me another year to be completely out of love with him, During that time I still tried my best to move on by dating other people. It takes time, but love can be change and often will die.