blackss Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 i'm going to the movies with my neighbor 2morrow should i pay for her ticket? we're not dating....yet..... think i should pay? Link to comment
CarterJonas Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Why not? Offer to pay for her ticket and she might offer to pay for the popcorn/munchies! Link to comment
Mun Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Yes offer to pay for the tickets.. especially if you like her and not just as a friend... what are you gonna see??--just curious Link to comment
NorthShore Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 I've said this in a previous post, but whenever I go to somewhere with a girl I like to pay for her, to me it seems like the gentleman-like thing to do. Link to comment
blackss Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 she wants to see the incredibles, what ever she wants ^^ i was thinking bout this... at ticket booth, she has money out, i look grab her hands, say, "hold on to that" or take it from her and pay with my money, then put hers in her back pocket... good plan? Link to comment
idontgetit Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 two things would make it a yes you're from the south, no? gentleman's etiquette would say absolutely. IF you want it to be more than a friend, yes. IF it's only a friend, then possibly not. Link to comment
blackss Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 she wants to see the incredibles, what ever she wants ^^ i was thinking bout this... at ticket booth, she has money out, i look grab her hands, say, "hold on to that" or take it from her and pay with my money, then put hers in her back pocket... good plan? Link to comment
NorthShore Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 The last time I was at the movies the girl I was with was talking to a friend who was behind us in the queue, so she didn't notice that it was our turn, so I bought the tickets and then asked her if she was ready, she said bye to her friend and was saying stuff like 'aww you shouldn't have' etc. Link to comment
Josh G. Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Id do it liek this, Pull out like a 20 dollar bill, that should cover it, if not, a bigger one then (and im not saying this to make u look rich, just makes her less likely to offert to pay) then say, 2 tickets for the incredibles. thats it. make it smooh and dont even expect her to pay, do it like uve done it a million times and so fast she cant get her money out, just watch in admiration. hope that helps, Josh Link to comment
idontgetit Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 um, admiration? i wouldn't quite go that far in defining the response Link to comment
Mun Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 If she takes out her money just tell her " It's ok I got it" and pay.... once this guy told me " You know I don't like that " and I put my money away. . it was sweet Link to comment
DBL Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 I would make her pay for both tickets. I would say...you wanted to go? you got a pay. Just kidding. Actually I follow simple rules. 1. friends from out of town..I pay the bill. 2. friends that are poor..I pay the bill. 3. friends that are girls...I pay the bill. DBL Link to comment
Josh G. Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 um, admiration? i wouldn't quite go that far in defining the response lol i kno, I had to sugar coat it somehow. Link to comment
scaryperson Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Well, i personally have to disagree with the methods of everyone else. Me and 2 of my friends actually talked about this yesterday. You should give her a choice, say you'll pay if thats ok, as she may feel slightly insulted, yes it's very gentleman like, and sweet, but it can make a girl feel cheap, like she has to be bought. So, personally, i think you should make sure she knows you're happy to pay for both of you, but if she's not comfortable with that, then she doesn't have to accept, don't make this girl feel trapped. Hope this helps. Link to comment
shademan Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 I always found no joy in money and since i'm not an easily amused person i spend whatever i have in my pocket . i always pay as long as i have the money even if that person is not even a friend i like to have the upper hand , movies... well since i go to the same movie theater i kinda know the girl at the booth and she knows how i am so she is like hi .... to start talking with me and i just pay . in your case you have to offer , it's kidna of an etiquette thing if refuses the first time tell her it's just a movie ticket it's nothing, if she insists that you don't then Back OFF some women take it way too personal and might go mental on you so beware of your actions and think twice before you act and triple before you apply . Link to comment
crookster_man Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Ah the classic movie ticket senerio... Go for a twist. Go to pay then be like... oh shoot I left my wallet in the car. Have her pay... then have her pay for snacks then dinner... then move away and never see her again. That way you'll had a night of entertainment at not cost. Good idea? eh? no? oh well I guess you could pay then. (I think this post has been answerd enough, and I'm board at work!) Link to comment
blackss Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 i'm just gonna have a 20 out at the counter and stay infront of her Link to comment
crookster_man Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 Wow your really putting a lot of thought into a really simple thing, girls are impressed by quick decisive action. Confidence cannot be rehearsed and planed out. Just do whatever you feel is right. Stand by your convictions and just go ahead and do it. The best responses are the ones that come naturally. So stop worrying about this, stop planing it over and over agian. It won't help you, in fact it will make you more nervous then you should be. Just go out with her, have a good time and role with it. That's the best advice I can give. Cheers and good luck to yea. Remember dating is supose to be FUN! Link to comment
blackss Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 yea well i sit here and plan it but when it comes down to it i basicallly forget what i was going to do and just come up with stuff as it goes along lol? lol i think ima kiss her also Link to comment
Mun Posted November 13, 2004 Share Posted November 13, 2004 , if she insists that you don't then Back OFF some women take it way too personal and might go mental on you so beware of your actions and think twice before you act and triple before you apply . Shademan you bring up an interesting point. I wonder if the girls insists on paying because she feels "cheap" or "bought" like scary said..and she goes mental about it.. will you want to take her out again?.....just wondering Blakss if you decide to kiss her just do it spontaneously ...don't plan it and it will be great. Link to comment
blackss Posted November 13, 2004 Author Share Posted November 13, 2004 its going to be done in the theater or at her house Link to comment
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