Is calling ok?

[monkeyman]

Is it okay to ask a girl out on the phone? I would rather do it in front of her, but I can never seem to get her alone. I definitely don't want to ask her friends. I could ask face to face, but I might be able to do it, if it's on the phone.

[ben37d]

that is a good question... it would be good to get a lot of girls opinions... i am the same as monkey

[whinger]

heh i am a guy but i think either the phone or in person is acceptable

 

(get out and off the internet)

 

however, its good to see her real reactions so in person is the better one

[lahso]

I see no harm in asking a girl out on the phone. I ran into the same problem recently. I couldn't ever get this girl alone, got her number, asked her out and all is good so far. I agree that nothing beats being able to see her reactions, body language, facial expressions, etc., but its better on the phone than not asking at all.

[dude123]

I think that calling a girl on the phone and asking her out is ok since it is the second most direct way of talking to someone. I still prefer asking her in person since I like to see her reaction twords me, but if you can't find her alone or you just don't see her too much then call her up and ask her out. Good Luck!

[SwingFox]

Hi,

 

I see no problem in asking a girl for a date over the phone. In the dating game, sometimes you run into a situation where it cannot be done otherwise. I mean, if you meet a nice woman in the grocery store, I'd ask her phone number, so we can talk. I guess then there's no other option than asking her out for a date over the phone.

 

I hope that this helped you guys, too

 

~ SwingFox ~

[lipstick]

Asking out on a phone? hm................

I believe its ok.......as long as you don't hang up after the question.......

"would you date me?"

[lil sis]

yes! call!! do it! girls would love the call... i wish the guy i'm on about would call me, i'd call him, but i'm scared. so jus call her dammit!

[bzborow1]

If you don't want to ask her out in front of her friends, but you do want to ask her out in person. How about you go up to her in class or just before class or something....or even to slip her a note, just asking, can we talk after class today?

 

Then ask her out then. Besides, by then she'll probably already know what you're going to do.

[monkeysrok]

IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY...YOU NEVER WILL GET A GIRLFRIEND OKKKK

[monkeyman]

So are you guys sure its okay? Cuz, I didn't ever ask her yet, and school is out now.

 

Damn, I'm way too ***ing shy.

[stevo89]

How did you get her phone number in the first place? If you were able to ask her phone number in person to her directly, then you obviously have enough confidence the ask her out in person... If you didn't ask her directly then she'll be wondering just how you got her phone number...

[monkeyman]

She goes to my school. I looked her up in the directory. I've called her before and talked, and we're friends, so she knows I know her number. She looked mine up too a while a go.

[Hopper]

i totally think calling is ok. there is this girl that i've been getting to know for a while now and we actually met just by hanging out with a group of friends. got her screen name and number and just started chatting with her here and there, and eventually felt confident enough that she would be comfortable with me so i called and asked her out.

 

but i dont think you should just call without getting to know her some. getting to know her over the phone or over IM, let her feel comfortable around you first, then go for the date. i think this advice only works if you want to work on a relationship.

[Poltergeist]

Im going to have to do mine on the phone because heck, Im just too nevervous and I don't want to scare her away.