My Boyfriend Says He Doesn't Know What He Wants in a Girl

[Coolcat1]

What does it mean when my boyfriend of two years says he doesn't know what he wants in a girl? I asked him if that means he doesn't know if I'm any better for him than any other girl, and he said "exactly." What do I do?

[christianguy10]

Stay with him, If your relationship is having problems then yeah dump his sorry ass but otherwise stay with him. He may be confused or going through a rough patch in your relationship.

 

Try rekindle what you had way back in the day but I would take this to mean that he will start sniffing around other girls if he cannot find what he loved about you in the first place. He may start looking thinking the grass is greener with person x, y and z so definitely be there for him. Show him what attracted you two in the first place.

 

-- hope this helps

[elcie]

Maybe he has a warped sense of humour, maybe he likes keeping you guessing.....has there been any other red flags?

[Heather Dawn]

That would be a huge red flag for me... It would come accross as though he still wasn't sure that there's not something better out there for him than you.

[jaciej]

I would signal this to mean he still hasnt found what he looking for, and he is settling. It doesnt mean you should dump him, but you should be aware before investing more years in him

[In the Dark]

That kind of remark would scare anybody.

From my point of view, this means he may wish to know that it is like with other women.

 

I can not see his remark any other way.

[calichick007]

He's 15. A child. What do you expect??