help! this orgasm buisiness is hard!

[valhaalla1607306434]

Hi! I am an eight year old woman who has iniciated her sex life nearly a yr ago. My partner is a great and insasciable lover and he fills my needs excepcionally well but there seems to be a problem. I dont have the courage to tell him this as I know I would hurt his ego deeply but I dont think I have had an orgasm during intercourse. When he performs oral sex and estimulates my clitoris I know I come cos I feel all the tingling and contracting and all the fluids but the same does not happen during intercourse. Should it feel the same? I love intercourse but it doesnt feel the same. Please help! I am very confused!

[valhaalla1607306434]

lol i am sorry... i am eighteen

[Desired1]

A lot of women do not have orgasms while they are having intercourse. Most female orgasms come from clitoral stimulation.

[JonnyG]

As the above says. Most women struggling to orgasm from penetrative sex. Most find it much easier to orgasm from oral sex, just like yourself.

[Day_Walker]

Although it is possible to have an orgasm through penetration you have to think of it as something that is elusive. Some will say that it is physically impossible for some women to have an orgasm from penetration yet others will say that it is definitely possible. I would say that its best that you dont expect to have an orgasm from pentration and if it happens then enjoy it.