Where do we stand?

[jessijess]

Ok, here's my story. I met my brother's friend at a party a little over a month ago & we really hit it off. I gave him my phone number & he called about a week later. The next day I went to his house & we ordered food, he played the guitar for me, & we talked. He even mentioned the fact that he was glad my brother already knew him & seemed to like him because that will make us dating easier. & then we ended up having sex. Please don't judge me upon that though.

Anyway, he told me to give him a call so I did. We talked a few times throghout the week & the following weekend he came over for my brother's bday party & stayed over. The weekend after that I went to his house & he took me to a very nice restaurant for dinner & I spent the night with him. This past weekend he came to my house (we live about an hour apart) & he met my mom, who loved him, & he took me out to another really nice restaurant.

Here's what has me confused. He's always telling me to call him but it's hard to get a hold of him & he rarely ever calls me. I guess it's kind of giving me a complex. He's been working 56 hours a week (nights) & his mother came to live with him because she's really sick with cancer (another really long story). So I understand that he's got alot going on right now but it;'s making it almost impossible to figure out how he feels & I;m not sure if its a good time to be asking him. Any insight?

[Protex]

You have a right to know his feelings.

 

I suggest you keep trying to get a hold of a him.

[jessijess]

He's got my brother's approval & that's hard to get. I already know alot about him & none of it's bad. He hasn't even dated anyone in about 3 years because he's been busy taking care of his sick mother.

[Protex]

You really need to track him down, it sounds like you're really into him and if he feels the same about you then it could be the start of something wonderful.

[kauaiangirl83]

It seems to me that he really does like you, but he's just been busy. I do know that sometimes guys pull away when they feel they're getting too close so this may be it, but I think you should just be patient. He obviously likes you, but he just has a lot going on right now.