Emotinally or physical!!!!!

[ILLGETBY]

Which is easier to get to terms with when a breakup happens.1\ the sex that ment nothing or the 2/ "ive got strong feelings for someone else" but aint done anything yet?

 

What do you think??

[garretp]

I'm not positive what you mean. Do you mean which one is easier to deal with? If so then in my case it was much easier to deal with the fact that she had sex with someone else. Her emotionally being with someone has taken a lot of time to deal with (and I'm still not completely over it, its been 9 months).

 

Though if that's not what you mean, let me know.

[april15]

Neither is something that will quickly go away. I think they go hand in hand as well. The sex meant nothing because they had feelings for someone else. For me #2 would be slightly harder since someone I cared for no longer has those feelings for me, but for someone else.

[ILLGETBY]

Are you still with her if so how did the emotionally relationship happen, were you not getting on and how long had it been going on and how far did they take it before you found out?