MrBrightside15 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 This weekend I ran into a girl that I haven't seen in several years. She was serving at the Irish pub I was at with some friends. I noticed her, and went over and talked to her. When she saw me she smiled and gave me a hug. Just a little bit of small talk, then she had to keep working. A little later I went to the bathroom, and crossed paths again. She smiled and looked like she intended to just keep walking, but I stopped her. Told her "Everyone you see here must say this, but we should hang out soon." She agrees, then I said "we'll catch up!" and she agrees again. I start walking away and she says "Facebook me!" I said I would. We were already FB friends, so I'm just not sure what exactly she means by FB me. What should I do? Link to comment
Arlequinn Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I would send her a message or post on her wall (depending on how shy you are) that it was great to see her the other night! Leave it at that, then the ball is in her court. Are you concerned she didn't remember you, thus she didn't know you were already her FB friend? Link to comment
MrBrightside15 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Share Posted November 2, 2011 She definitely remembered me, and by telling me to FB her I don't think she was saying to friend request her. I guess I'm just wondering if I'm supposed to suggest getting together on FB, or ask for her number on FB, or just do you like said and say it was nice seeing her.. Link to comment
Ready4anything Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I would say: Hey it was great seeing you the other night. Too bad we couldn't catch up more. What are you up to this week or weekend? Lets grab a bite or drink. Link to comment
MrBrightside15 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Share Posted November 2, 2011 I would say: Hey it was great seeing you the other night. Too bad we couldn't catch up more. What are you up to this week or weekend? Lets grab a bite or drink. Private message or wall post? Link to comment
Ready4anything Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Private message or wall post? Private message for sure. Link to comment
MrBrightside15 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Share Posted November 2, 2011 Private message for sure. Thank you ma'am! Link to comment
laura40 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 It means send her a message! Link to comment
MrBrightside15 Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 Sent her a quick private message a couple days ago, and she got back to me today. I said: Hey her name! It was great seeing you the other night. Too bad we couldn't talk more, though. Drinks this weekend?" She said, "Yeah! Throw me a text! I have to work tomorrow night [sat night] but we'll get together soon!" then she put her number. She can't do anything tomorrow, and Sunday is busy for me, so what's my next move? Text her during the week? Link to comment
Ready4anything Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 That's a great sign that she gave you her number. Text her Monday afternoon and tell her when you are available (2 days max) and hope that it works with her schedule too. Link to comment
MrBrightside15 Posted November 12, 2011 Author Share Posted November 12, 2011 So I texted her on Monday with this message: "Hey it's [me]...wanna get together this week? Wed and Thurs work for me. Lemme know!" Haven't heard from her and it's Friday now. Any next move? Texting her again feels awkward to me, but I'm not sure. Link to comment
cereza Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 first make sure that u have the right num. check again. And I don't think u should text her. U already did and is rude for someone not to answer back. Just wait and see what she says. Don't text her because u will look too into her but yeah if I like someone I will not take more than one day to answer back even if I"m busy. Link to comment
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