What happens after you meet and know its meant to be?

[hippychick11]

I met my online boyfriend earlier this year, I travelled to his country and we spent a month everyday together, it was amazing.

 

What happens now? Should we both be planning on how to be with each other?

 

I feel like he'd be content just talking to me online but I really want to be with him. Should it be both people trying to make it happen? How does it work?

[blackhawks1287]

This is not enough information to justify such a decision...

 

How do you know it is MEANT TO BE?????

 

On what foundation do you just want to move to his country and spend the rest of your life with this one man?

[Kitkat973]

If you want to be with him, then you should talk to him about what he wants. If you're both on the same page, then it's time to discuss logistics like moving, etc.

[desert_rose26]

Oh boy, I've been in a similar situation. You really don't learn until you are in it. Why put yourself in such a miserable place. How can you know for sure. You can't and even if you do, you need to find a way to date regularly for months, years, before you decide it is meant to be.