Guy wants me to come to him

[Walla]

Hi,

 

There is this guy i meet a few years ago, we have been in contact on and off for a few years, he has asked me a few time to meet up in my area or his, so this time he has moved to a city that is closer and asked if i would come up for a night. I said no at first but changed my mind and decide i should just do it. He asked when i was planning on coming up, i said i didnt know yet and what would suit him, but he hasnt text back for a few days. How do i ask him again when would suit him without sounding desperate?

[blackhawks1287]

My question would be what do you want out of meeting this guy or hanging out?

 

My guess would be he was turned off by the initial no, but he may come around in a few days, Don't send another text all unless he does, or if you feel like you want to send one, don't talk about meeting up just send him something he might like, or find funny...but don't barrage him.

[magnoliatree]

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[magnoliatree]

Why are you offering yourself up on a platter for this guy? I don't think there is a way to contact him again without sounding desperate. I wouldn't bother with him again.