Help please

[lazy900]

My girlfriend gets back from japan and doesnt want to date anymore she wants to "be friends" and she wont tell me whats wrong. what should i do i love this girl with all my heart and hearing this is killing me inside i need help.

[sprkal]

How long has she been gone? The distance may have made her 'forget' how much you mean to her. Distance doesnt always make the heart grow fonder.

 

She also might have found someone new.

 

Perhaps her travels have given hera new perspective, and she wants to enjoy the single life. See how things pan out. Let her know that you want her back, but dont pester her, she'll only resent it.

[EmberTide]

Just give her what she wants. Be her friend and in a week or two just mention it or ask her why she ended it. Maybe she isn't sure herself and by then she'll realize why or that she didn't even really want to do it.

-Manda

[dhf411]

tha best thing i think u can do is give her some time and just be her friend. later if u still have feelings for her start flirting all over agin and take it from there.

[shy]

The best thing you can do is to give her space and let her settle down if she wants to end her relationship with you then she must be have her reasons ...dont ask her too many questions and certainly dont act like you are dying just compose your self and wait she will come around in time and will tell you why she broke up with .....sorry dear but such is life .........

[lazy900]

Thanks you guys have been a great help. it just struck me so hard she just gets back from a two month trip and and the first words she says to me is please dont hate me but. she said she has been thinking it over well she is gone and that she just wants to be alone.