dating multiple men... met new guy today... he resembles a man from my past

[im sandra dee]

I met a new guy this afternoon for coffee.

 

He has asked me to have lunch with him on Friday and I've accepted.

 

I am most certainly attracted to him and I enjoyed spending time with him.

 

The guy I met three weeks ago may lose the number one spot if he doesn't step up soon. I wasn't thinking about him at all today when I met new guy.

 

One thing, however, new guy very much resembles a man from my past. They both share the same heritage and I can't get over how similar they look. I made sure to ask if he has any relatives in the city where I live. He lives in another city.

 

Any advice on what I should say to new guy if he tries to pressure me into having sex? I only ask this because I can see how attracted he is to me. Without a doubt.

[ImNotYourBabe]

If he tries to PRESSURE you? I would tell him its over and never see him again.

[BriarRose]

If he tries to PRESSURE you? I would tell him its over and never see him again.

 

I agree. It's a lunch date, hopefully he will not pressure you for sex!

[Positive_Anonymous]

And what about the new guy you meet next week, and the week after...and the week after that...sounds like your on a never ending run of meeting compatible guys doesn't it. I think you need to take things a little slower and understand the meaning of it all, sometimes when we have multiple options appearing from every direction we can truly miss what we really desire.