Should I stay or should I go?

[Aria820]

I don't know if i should stay or go in the relationship that I am in. I am having a "relative problem" with someone in my boyfriend's family. I don't want to come between them and certainly don't want to lose that man I love. He needs to use "tough love" on this person and kick him out. Basically, if this person thinks looking for a job is golfing and not paying rent or attempting to stay for as long as he wants, wearing out his welcome he needs to leave. Especially, when you are in your mid-thirties with two kids.

[Someone]

Have you discussed this with your boyfriend? If so, how has he responded? Are you living with him? How long have you been together?

This is obviously an issue in your relationship so you should discuss the problem and ask for your boyfriend to address the problem. If he doesn't respond to your needs, then I would say that you should consider leaving the relationship.