Not sure if my boyfriend cheated on me...need help!

[mochilla21]

I have had trouble trusting my boyfriend, and recently made the mistake of going through his email. I found out that he had coffee with a guy we had met at a party. I didnt think it was a big deal, it is an older guy, I do not feel threatened sexually by, but he didnt tell me about it, and he usually gives me a pretty detailed account of his day. Then he said they just emailed. Later he said that he just felt a little guilty maybe because the guy was clearly interested in him, and he liked that a little bit. Then the email the next day from the guy said, "Look forward to a REPEAT PERFORMANCE" which to me sounded like more than just coffee. I'm nervous to tell him that I read his email, but that phrase will not get out of my head. Am I just reading too much into this?

 

Also, could that repeat performance really just mean more coffee, or do you think they did something else?

[Distant]

Hmmm, snooping is a big no-no. I would give him a chance. If he did cheat and you can prove it then go ahead and confront him. But other than that just relax. Give him the benefit of the doubt.

[CaptainNapalm]

Nothing sounds suspicious or wrong here other than the fact you went through his email. Stop going through his stuff and you'lll feel better.

[arcadefire]

I would bring up whether this other guy is something more to your boyfriend. You should apologize beforehand, though, saying that you've looked at his email and found one that troubles you. I would warn you, he may very likely lie to you if there is funny business.