moving in together = dwindling sex life?

[luxe_13]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5mths. We moved in together a couple of weeks ago.

 

Up until about 5 days ago we had a very healthy sex life. We did it most nights and it was great!! ( I usually stayed at his place most nights).

 

The last few days, he has had little interest in having sex at all. He is still cuddly and affectionate but won’t be intimate with me.

 

Should I be worried? I know it’s not even been a week but after having such regular sex, it feels odd that we’re suddenly not doing it.

 

Is this what happens when you move in with your boyfriend!?

 

Lx

[Jd1983]

Your relationship is still fairly new, therefore it's still too early for the sex to be dwindling.

 

Is there something that has been stressing him out lately?

[luxe_13]

yeah, he's been quite anxious about his mum's partner who is very ill. i suppose that could be it?

[Jd1983]

That could possibly be it.

 

I'm a sex fiend, but there has been times I didn't want to have sex with my bf. It wasn't anything personal, just wasn't in the mood. We all have those times. I wouldn't worry so much about it.

 

Just wait it out, and see what happens. He's probably too consumed with his mom's bf.

[luxe_13]

i guess because the it's all happened at the same time i thought it had to do with living together when it possibly has nothing to do with it.

 

i guess i'll try to be patient!

[Jd1983]

Yes, just be there for him at the moment.

 

There is always time for sex, especially since you live together.