Ex might be at gig this weekend

[easyguy]

I'm playing a gig on Saturday night with a friend of mine - one of my ex's roommates (who introduced her to me) - and he said that she is deciding whether to come to it or not. We peacefully broke up on the last Sunday of this past February. NC was broken many times on my behalf, but have healed quite a bit since. There is even a new girl in the picture, though we are not dating yet and will not be at the gig.

 

Granted my ex is there (who I have not seen since the break up), should I just keep the talking to a minimum? Ask her what she's been up to?

[asthesparrow]

Just do what feels right at the time. Don't ignore her, but don't make her the centre of your attention at any given time. Treat her like any other acquaintance!

[MikNomis]

I suppose it depends on where you are emotionally. If you have not moved on yet, then you should try to avoid talking to her. But if there is no choice, just keep it very happy and short. Talk about very general things, as if you don't know her well. Be the one to say goodbye see you around first, and part on a good note like that. It's the best thing you can do.

[easyguy]

I received an email from her just a few minutes ago saying that she was in fact going to be there and would be delighted to get coffee afterwards as well. I guess that answers that.