feeling replaced

[ndl24]

This is my first time posting anything, but I really need some advice.

 

I have been best friends with my friend since 5th grade. We graduated from high school last year, but still live in the same city (just going to different schools). We used to hang out every weekend. This past month she started to spend all of her time with girl from work, Lindsey. Lindsey likes to drink and now my friend drinks. My friend just started to date one of Lindsey's friends, it's her first real boyfriend. Now I feel like I'm being tossed aside because of her new friends. She spends the whole week with them going to parties and the weekdays golfing or bowling (both of what she hates).

I've talked to her about this and she promised me she wouldn't drink anymore. I've told her I feel like I'm losing her and that I'm being replaced. She's says that isn't going to happen, but her reassurance isn't helping. It seems like she would rather be with Lindsey then me because every time we talk she just talks about Lindsey and what they did that day.

This past weekend she blew off plans with me on Friday to hang out with them, but she said she really wished she could've gone with me. She always complains that she thinks it's boring to just sit at someone's house and watch a movie, but that's what she did with them on Friday. Then on Saturaday she said she would call me in between 3 & 4, but never did. She said she always makes sure that "we're" not doing anything before she does stuff with them. This was not the case on Saturday and it really hurt me.

I'm sorry this was long winded, but I'm really not sure what else to do. If you could help I would really be grateful! Thanks!!

[shadowsofthedarkness]

well ive been in your shoes b4, and when i said that I was losing my friend, she also said that wasnt happening, but i didnt believe her, much lyke i think you dont.... but i didnt say anything... and my friend moved away, and we lost touch... but i really hope it can be different for you guys