ay0_x Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 This is so embarrassing... I don't believe I've ever orgasmed. Masturbation isn't all that for me, I do it ilke once in a blue moon, and I doubt I've ever orgasmed. However, when I've had sex, I experience something and I don't know what it is... A while into sex my body will start to convulse, sort of painfully, and my back arches into a fit and there's a sudden adrenaline rush and I always push any guy off. It's like I turn into a werewolf or something. It's usually after the guy has cummed so they don't mind but they're a bit weirded out... it's pretty exorcist-ish. This didn't happen with my 1st sexual partner when we were having sex but it did when he was fingering me, a while into it all I wanted him to do was stop and then suddenly I'd have this "seizure". It happened with my 2nd sexual partner when we were having sex, he was bigger so maybe that's why. He was a big guy, atleast 30 pounds bigger than me, and I get an adrenaline rush and THROW him to the other side of the bed =\. Okay. Enough making myself look like a loser. Does anyone know what's wrong =[ Link to comment
peppercorn Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 While I don't know what's wrong... lemme just say that I have issues orgasming myself... and I think it would be VERY wise to see a doctor about this. Nothing can beat expert medical attention -- which I think this deserves. Best of luck. Link to comment
gidget1 Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 This sounds crazy. How do you feel after you experience this sort of thing? Weak? Like Jelly? Hot? Flustered? Or just normal/a bit short of breath? Could be a really intense O but I've never heard of one accompanied by pain. I'm like you, with the thrashing about, back arching intensely (when it's good!!), but there is definitely not any pain (when I'm reaching O I'm pretty sure you could hit me accross the face and I wouldn't feel it!). Ask a doctor or a nurse at family planning? Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 I don't know what it is... but does it have any pleasure for you? or just painful? Also, you have not even orgasmed from clit stimulation? Link to comment
jul-els Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 I don't know what it feels like for a woman to orgasm but what you're describing sounds like one except you're not getting much pleasure from it. I would ask your doctor about it. Link to comment
ay0_x Posted August 21, 2009 Author Share Posted August 21, 2009 I don't know what it is... but does it have any pleasure for you? or just painful? Also, you have not even orgasmed from clit stimulation? It has pleasure up until this happens. Clit stimulation is even more painful and I can't really take it. This sounds crazy. How do you feel after you experience this sort of thing? Weak? Like Jelly? Hot? Flustered? Or just normal/a bit short of breath? Could be a really intense O but I've never heard of one accompanied by pain. I'm like you, with the thrashing about, back arching intensely (when it's good!!), but there is definitely not any pain (when I'm reaching O I'm pretty sure you could hit me accross the face and I wouldn't feel it!). Ask a doctor or a nurse at family planning? Well I kind of feel like anyone would feel after just having thrown a 180 pound guy.. Not really that weak or like jelly.. Hot and flustered a little but that's usually from confusion/embarrassment.. Like I can still walk, dance, run after it. I don't know what it feels like for a woman to orgasm but what you're describing sounds like one except you're not getting much pleasure from it. I would ask your doctor about it. Okay, thank you. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 hmm, odd. Definitely talk to a doctor. and my guess is you just don't know how to do the clit stimulation, because it can be painful if you do it wrong. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 Very unusual. My feeling is that if you were having a normal orgasm, you wouldn't be worried and asking on here, because orgasm should not be painful. Pretty much no natural bodily reaction that's meant to be a positive should be painful... unless that's what you're into! Go see a doctor. Pain does not = normal. Link to comment
Fionnuala Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 This has happened to me. Not that often though, just every once in a while. It's pretty much exactly like when I have an orgasm, except...not very pleasurable. Not sure what causes it, and it only happened a few times so I never got it checked out. Link to comment
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