Just to lead me on?

[GirlGreen]

hey i was just wondering..

 

There is this guy that does the thing that you guys say a lot of girls do- he stares at me until i look at him and then he just keeps staring at me. i look at him too unless it begins to be akward. so i smile and look away. he also comes up and stands very close to me in the back kinda on the side. i know it seems like he likes me, but is there anyway that he doesnt. i mean i want him to like me, but i dont want to get my hopes up if you know what i mean.

 

would i guy do that just to lead me on? just for fun or something?

[Tinkerbell]

Hmm, I don't think it would be wise to assume that he likes you based solely on the staring and standing close to you. Maybe he's just attracted to you, or perhaps he's a flirt and enjoys being like that with girls. Try talking to him, observing the way he reacts in your presense will give you a better clue as to what he feels for you.

[Sn0man]

I wouldn't call it leading you on. Sounds like he could be interested, as when theres interest, theres often alot of trying to make eye contact and hold it (an observation i've made).

[GirlGreen]

ok, then i have another question. today he was looking at me today and i was wondering if i should look back at him when i notice him doing this. what do you think? just let him look at me, or look him back in the eye?

[Santa]

Look him back in the eye.

Oh and one last thing, try to make it easy for him to approach you! I hate it when girls are around their mates, it's so... scarey.

[GirlGreen]

Oh and one last thing, try to make it easy for him to approach you! .

 

what do you mean by that? how?

[Santa]

Don't like stay in groups all the time, and stuff - make it so you are sometimes alone around him, and you know, not busy.

An example being, if you know he takes a certain route, perhaps one day wait on that route, and just stand around doing nothing as if your waiting for someone, or your bored.