How would you do it?

[Cleros]

Ok, what's the best way to find out if they are already seeing someone? I have this problem all the time, and one time i just went ahead and asked a girl out, turned out she was already dating someone.

 

Maybe I'm just not observant enough.

 

Any ideas?

[Silversun]

If you like a girl find out about her from a friend of her's. That way, no one will know you like her (if you want it that way) and you won't end up embarrassing yourself. Find out if she has a b/f.

 

If she does then you could A) Wait until they split or B) Move on and find someone else....

 

The choice is yours, However here's some advice, always go with your gut feeling. If you have a good feeling and you think that theres a good chance you'll make a couple then by all means go for it...

 

Good luck!

[Turboz]

The choice is yours, However here's some advice, always go with your gut feeling. If you have a good feeling and you think that theres a good chance you'll make a couple then by all means go for it...

 

Good luck!

 

Thats not always right. Gut instincts can be very very wrong - I've been there and done that and when your gut instinct lets you down it hurts like hell.

 

The rest of your advice was good though!

[coyote99]

If I was dating someone I just prefer for a guy to be straight up with me. If you want to know, ask her. If she says yes, continue to talk to her and be friends so she knows that you weren't just interested in one thing.