Trying too hard

[bhat963]

I have been told my friends and even girls that I try too hard. I happen to, when it is quiet and there is awkward silence, try to make a conversation regardless of what the topic is just to break the silence. I think this attributes to me trying too hard and I am wondering what I should do?

 

Should I stop this habit of always trying to start a conversation and sit back and be quiet for once. And also, can someone give me some basic tips on how to get a girl to "like" you. I know I blew it with one girl when I knew she liked me but I blew since I kept on running my mouth.

[JohnDoe]

Well, no offense, but sometimes you just have to shut the old pie hole and let things ride. I don't quite see the conflict related to you breaking the silence, that seems to be a bit of a conundrum to me. If you are the smart ass type though, try using the line "Fat penguin, thaty'll break the ice" sometime. At least you will illicit a laugh out of a few people, though I must caution you about the frequency with which you utilize it, like one time only!

 

With reagrds to the verbal diarhea you experiencing, just learn to shup up once in a while. That is all. Just shut up. I am confident that it will solve at least a few of your problem.

 

Oh, and another thing, ask the girls, especially ones that you know, trust and maybe even like - for if you like them, they might come to realize it - that si a good thing by the way, what it is that you should be doing. They will be flattered that you asked for their advice and you will have their attention for a while.

 

Best of luck!

[bean]

yeah shut up!! thers this bloke i know, and he was popular, and it went to his head, he never shuts up, shouts all the time and now noone likes him.

It pays to be more conservative and think before you speak