chikadee Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 OK, I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. All through my first year at uni I had a boyfriend who was at uni a couple of hours away. One of my hallmates had a girlfriend all through first year. We became good friends. Last September we both came back to our new house newly single. We quickly began to get quite close (eg cuddling)... it's probably fair to say at first this was a rebound thing for me, and probably for him too. After a few months we were kissing and spending a lot of time together. We have 'fooled around' a bit too since February. He started saying he loves me a few months ago... However despite being the loveliest guy I just don't feel like I want to go out with him... Why don't I like him? He's funny, kind, romantic, sweet, intelligent, good looking (although not my typical type), generous, I get on well with his family and we have so much fun together. When we've been fooling around he has turned me on quite quickly... and yet there's something missing. When I'm away from him I don't miss him like I missed my ex (even though looking back my ex was a bit of an idiot...) I guess really I'm just wondering what people think about this and why I don't fancy him as such... I'm going abroad for a year in August so won't be seeing him much. I'm hoping being away from him will make me realise I do in fact miss him and need him and make me want us be together... Can you ever make yourself fall in love with someone? Link to comment
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