inspiration Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 This is sort of odd... but somedays i just feel like i can't be in a relationship anymore... i'm very easy going and it just seems like my other half (2 years) just rides my butt and criticizes all the time. I really can't take it anymore and it is wearing me down. problem is we are supposed to live together. for another 2-3 years. i don't know how to get out... i just feel like i am stuck in a situation i cannot get away from. i don't know how to go about bringing this up to her or even go about breaking up with her... it is all very scary for me. thanks. -.ins Link to comment
DN Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Have you talked to her about this? - she can't fix what she isn't aware is broken. Link to comment
inspiration Posted May 28, 2008 Author Share Posted May 28, 2008 Have you talked to her about this? - she can't fix what she isn't aware is broken. i tell her i feel like i'm being criticized for a lot of the normal and regular everyday things i do and i do not like it... but she swears she is not criticizing me. Link to comment
inspiration Posted May 28, 2008 Author Share Posted May 28, 2008 Well, what does she call it? i have absolutely no idea. but it hurts my feelings. Link to comment
Maree79 Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 I think you need to sit down & really talk to her about your problems with the relationship. She needs to know that it has gotten to the point where it is pushing you away. Honesty about your feelings is always best. Link to comment
winnie778 Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 how does she criticize you? does she get in small arguments with you? Link to comment
inspiration Posted May 28, 2008 Author Share Posted May 28, 2008 small arguments... i just try to play it off... but the arguments are starting to happen. i'm just being myself... but i am always "acting weird" or doing "something" different... i don't understand... it is like we are arguing about some mystery behavior that does not exist. Link to comment
CaptainNapalm Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 Since you're at the point of thinking of ending things with her you owe it to her to tell her just how you feel and let her or give both of you an opportunity to see if the problem can get worked on and ultimately fixed. I don't think you should abandon her without warning or do something now. Tell her exactly how you feel and what it is that you want and see if you guys can work on making things better. Give it a few months and if it doesn't work than you break up with her, move on and find someone else. Link to comment
winnie778 Posted May 28, 2008 Share Posted May 28, 2008 my sister is going through the same problem with her boyfriend....he cant handle the pressure of their problems....how offten do you have these fights? Link to comment
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