the ex factor

[aguagirl]

One of my friends just got out of a multiple year relationship, and I've really liked her for like a year and a half. I know that she's totally not over her ex yet and any relationship she would pursue right now would be a rebound relationship. How do I balance my feelings for her and wanting to be a good friend? I really want a chance of something legit, but when she's ready. BUT I don't want to be friend zoned. AND I don't want to be seen as someone that helped her get over her ex..anyone have any experience with this?

[arcadefire]

I would take things slow. Don't let her fall for you as a rebound because those feelings will not be genuine. I don't think you will be friend zoned if you are a shoulder for her to lean on while she is grieving the loss of her ex. I would also give her space and let her spend time with her girlfriends so she can get over her ex. Best of luck to you.