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I went to visit my boyfriend on Friday and to take all of his stuff to him. He is about 3 hours away from me. I don't understand what he is thinking. The night I got there he seemed happy to see me. Later that night he ask me to go in the room and stay because he doesn't want his friend to try and drag him out of the house because he was coming over. I did, but it pissed me off. That is not the first time he has ask me to go to bed. Then on Saturday we were going to go hunting, but he changed his mind because his friend and brother pissed him off. Later that evening he ask me to go on and go home. I know that he is trying to get things in his life straightened out because he has unpaid tickets and he needs to get a job, but why do I feel left out. I thought it was over that night, and I forgot to get something from him. I called and ask him about it, and he ask me what I was saying. He thought I was saying it was over. I said no I don't want that and he should know that because I gave him a letter earlier before I left. I told him I thought that was what he wanted. He said he didn't say that and that is why he said not to be upset before I left. He was aggrevated at me because when I left he told me to be careful, and I just said whatever. He said he didn't want to sit there and worry about me all night. I told him I was a big girl and he didn't need to worry about me because I could drive home. He then said he was going to think about if he still wants to be with me, and he would call me back tomorrow (Sunday). I said okay, and we got off the phone. I called him when I got home because he ask me to so he would know if I made it alright or not. Then Sunday came, and I didn't hear from him so I called him about 9:00pm. He had told me he would probably be doing some work with a friend, but he told me he was with his family in another town doing a family thing. I said that was cool, but he cut me short because he said something was going on, and when that was over he said he would probably go to sleep. He said he would talk to me tomorrow (Monday). Well it is Monday, and I was wondering if I should call him if he doesn't call me or to just let it be up to him. I don't want to push him, but I don't want to lose him. I love him and care about him a lot, but I am afraid that he doesn't feel the same. Does anyone have any advice they can give me?

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