metal_slug Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 aight heres the deal. ive known this girl for about a month and a half. shes in one of my classes, and ive been thinking of askin her out. we sit together, and worked on all the projects together. now last week a good friend of mine asked her out but she told em "maybe" and i talked to em about my feelings, he told me that i can also ask her out if i want, and may be best man win. do you guys think i should ask her out? and did she reject em because maybe she likes me? i duno wat to do. plz help. btw, i dont want to compromise my friendship with her, so any advice on how i can apporach her will be appreciated. thx in advance Link to comment
Hero_99 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 aight heres the deal. ive known this girl for about a month and a half. shes in one of my classes, and ive been thinking of askin her out. we sit together, and worked on all the projects together. now last week a good friend of mine asked her out but she told em "maybe" and i talked to em about my feelings, he told me that i can also ask her out if i want, and may be best man win. do you guys think i should ask her out? and did she reject em because maybe she likes me? i duno wat to do. plz help. btw, i dont want to compromise my friendship with her, so any advice on how i can apporach her will be appreciated. thx in advance Dude, look, never ever be afraid to jeapordize friendship for the sake of being a man, seriously. If she is some girl you would like to, hmmmm, get a little bit more personal with then don't hesitate and get yourself over there and ask her out. If you have no interest in her then keep her as a friend, yes. You see..... I think the problem is that you are scared of her and the fact that you are a man And you know what, all men are.... But you need to rise above the rest and let her know what a great person you are... Now get out there and make her laugh. Tease her like the homeley schoolgirl in braces. Heck, tell her she has cuties I am in college and that still works believe it or not! YOU ARE A GREAT GUY!!!!! Now get out there and show her what you are made out of. Better than dying a lonely death with a life full of desperation.... Link to comment
Hero_99 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 Also quit analyzing the situation. It's not helping you any and I wouldn't assume that she likes you because you friend got rejected. You're only destroying every chance you have by doing that just go do it for peat sakes.... Link to comment
metal_slug Posted November 8, 2003 Author Share Posted November 8, 2003 ya know what, u guys are right man. i think i was a little scared. man i take martial arts, and it doesnt even scare me when a guy twice my size is sparring with me. but asking a girl out... woah id rather spar the the guy twice my size lol. but yea, im just gona go for it, thx for building up the confidence. ill let u know how it goes. Link to comment
Hero_99 Posted November 8, 2003 Share Posted November 8, 2003 Remember to exude lots of confidence...... Link to comment
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