IS SHE GAY OR BI? CAN SHE BE WITH ME?

[Sgtfrendly]

I RECENTLY STARTED DATING A NEW WOMAN. I AM A MAN. WE HAVE DATED 3 MONTHS. IN THE BEGINNING SHE TOLD ME THAT FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS, SHE WAS GAY AND ONLY DATED WOMEN. IN JULY 2003, WE MET AND OVER THE LAST 3 MONTHS FELL IN LOVE. WE HAVE HAD A GREAT RELATIONSHIP ALL AROUND INCLUDING SEXUALLY. SHE JUST TOLD ME THAT SHE DOES NOT THINK SHE CAN CONTINUE WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE SHE IS GAY AND THAT I CAN'T UNDERSTAND IF SHE TRIED TO EXPLAIN IT TO ME. I FEEL DIFFERENTLY ABOUT IT. SHE HAS WRITTEN ME DURING THE 3 MONTHS HOW SHE IS COMFORTABLE WITH ME AND WANTS A FUTURE WITH ME AND THAT I MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE HAS NEVER FELT BEFORE. WE HAVE NOT SEEN EACHOTHER FOR A WEEK NOW AND SHE MISSES WHAT WE HAD. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IS THERE A CHANCE WE CAN SALVAGE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND SOMEDAY MARRY AS WE PLANNED? THIS IS ALL NEW TO ME AND I NEED HELP UNDERSTANDING THIS AND NEED TO KNOW IF I SHOULD CONTINUE TO PURSUE HER OR NOT. I HAVE NEVER LOVED ANYONE IN MY LIFE UNTIL I MET HER. THANKS TO ALL IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR HELP.

[irreplaceably_rare]

Well if she is having sex with you, then she is BI Sexual and I think he is just confused as to what she wants. Maybe she is scared of something really serious. I believe you should continue to pamper her. Show her that you do care. Maybe she will turn around and see that, maybe she has feelings for you that can last alife time.

 

Dont let love fall through you finger tips.

Good luck

Jessica

[Bonafide]

I know exactly how U feel it's hard to be with

someone who is not exactly straight like U what

are U gonna do right?!? If U think her sexual

preference will not bother U when and if

U guys ever plan to marry then go for it. GOODLUCK!!