1st handjob went good, but it didn't exactly work

[party_of_italy]

I just gave my first hand job but he didn't cum or anything. he said it was great and we needed to do it again, but he also said no girl has ever been able to get him to cum when giving a hand job. i wanna be the first. any suggestions on how to make it more successful?

[Ash]

Odd as though it may sound, sometimes it can be difficult for men to get there under certain conditions.

 

Certainly don't give up. But also, don't pressure either yourself or him to go all the way. The same as for women, he needs to be ralaxed and comfortable. Ask him for tips on exactly how to do it. If he will, get him to show you how he does it, although you may find the angles tricky, but try anyway. Ask him if there's something he'd like to be doing to you at the same time to increase his excitement level.

 

But just keep trying, he'll get there eventually.

[kmachris]

Leftygirl,

 

I'm a 21 year old guy, and to be honest with you a lot of guys don't cum very easy on handjobs (myself including). I agree with the last reply, on trying to increase the sexual mood a little more. However, don't beat yourself up about it though, b/c eventually it will happen.

 

Also from a guys perspective, don't give a handjob for a super long time, b/c it can get painful after awhile. Remember it's the thought that counts . Good luck

 

Best regards,

 

 

Chris

[j-boe]

Try using your mouth for help next time... See how that goes...

 

Thank me later.

 

-j

[surfdog]

Ask him how he likes it...use some baby oil....feels great...I finish EVERYTIME!