jake538 Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Okay, so I'm a very shy guy and I finally got up the courage to ask out this girl I have a crush on. The problem is this, I have no I dea if she said yes or not (this would be my first girlfriend I just turned 16). So here is exactly what was said. Small talk etc. Me: So would you like to go out and do something after school sometime? Her: Sure. Me: Great, how about a movie on friday night. Her: Sorry but I work Friday night. Me: Well then what day would work for you? Her: I work alot this week, Saturday,friday,thursday and tuesday. So why dont we go on Wednesday? Me: Okay, great. Her: Oh actually I forgot wednesday is conference(parent/teacher) night. This week is actually pretty busy so why dont we do it sometime next week? By this time school is over with and I have to go my separate way. Me: Well why dont we talk about it tomarrow. Her: Alright, see ya. Problem is I didn't even get her number. So what is yes or no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteakHouse Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 I used to be a skinny, non girl getting kinda guy. As soon as I picked up weights, got a little bulk to myself, I gained tons of confidence. And that is what the girls see in me. Most girls like a guy with it, and not someone who they know everyone will walk over. With that said, I usually use the like "If you don't want to go out with me, just tell me. I'd rather have you tell me now then have you blow me off). Now, I only use that line when I don't think the girl likes me, or gives me weird answers. When I call them out like that, I get a straight up answer, it may hurt to find out the truth (if it's bad) but it'll save you a lot of time. Maybe you should just be upfront with her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike-e-mike Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 Looks good mate first thing u got was a sure not a maybe and she said she'd talk about it tomorrow. I think u got yourself a rendezvous Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcos Posted October 7, 2003 Share Posted October 7, 2003 Well done jake for plucking up the courage to ask her out. well u will see her at school so pick up were u left off and everything should be great. good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jake538 Posted October 7, 2003 Author Share Posted October 7, 2003 Great news, it turns out that she did want to go out afterall. So we're going to go see a movie on Tuesday of next week. But here is another question, when I was talking to her all I did was give her my number but I forgot to ask for hers, my sister seems to think that this is a major faux pas what do you guys think (did I blow it)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcos Posted October 8, 2003 Share Posted October 8, 2003 you didn't blow it. well done mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jake538 Posted October 9, 2003 Author Share Posted October 9, 2003 Okay, I got her number today. I dont think I will call her until tomarrow. Is this a good idea. Also what kind of things do you think she would want to talk about, and what is a good ice breaker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cid Posted October 10, 2003 Share Posted October 10, 2003 I think so give her some time befor you call her. Now what should you talk about....... every thing that comes up that is about all I can say. A good ice breaker, that one is alittle bit hard..... ok say "hey (her name) what are you up to?" and go from there. Well I hope that this helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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