Maybe you can help me

[TheBladeRunner]

I just found this site today so I figured I would go ahead and post here.

 

Here's my scoop. There is this girl that I met a few years ago, that I developed a crush on. We are like super-close friends. We hang out together literally all the time, talk for hours, go out by ourselves and with other people, etc. Anyways the thing is that I really really like her. But we've been friends for a really long time. I dont really know how to ask her out. It's not a matter of asking for a date or as if she was a total stranger, it would be easy then. But since we are such close friends, I ain't exactly sure how to do this.

 

She does know that I have a crush on her, I HAVE told her (but that was quite a while ago).

 

So put yourselves in my shoes and tell me what you would do.

 

PEACE OUT

[berry1204]

Has she given you any signals of feeling the same way? I would just go for it before some other guy snatches her up. Just let her know that if she just wants to be friends that is still cool with you.

[Karl]

She most likely knows and feels the same way. Women are smart, they have strong intuition. Go for it...if you are really friends, what's the worst that can happen?

 

Best,

 

Karl Augustine

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[SunnyScott]

She probably senses that you like her.

 

If I were you, I'd tell her, and then keep it on a friendship level. If she cares enough, then she'll give you more clues. Trust me, if a girl does not like you, then she won't drop hints.

[TheBladeRunner]

the worst that can happen is that I myself get frustrated and I am the one that ends the friendship. After all, how long can I stand to torture myself ?

 

By the ways, You all said that she senses that I like her. She does know that I like her, I have told her myself. It was quite a while ago (like four or five months ago). She didn't totally reject me, but obviosly we aren't going out.

 

Thanks to all you people that responded, I appreciate it.

[Cid]

Ok I have a question for you is it worth loseing your friend over? Not saying you will, but you must look at it that way. Your best bet is just to ask her out.