butterflylover

It's so weird that I really had no more tear to cry this time since i;ve been through this crap so many times. you know confronting him about the issue and him promising to stop. But after reading all you advice, I cried so much! I have come to realize that I need to be strong and need to stop letting these guys walk all over me. MY son's dad cheated on me too.... so I'm still pretty traumatized. that's kind of why I'm so insecure and why i put myself down. I love this guy alot, more than anything. and give him the world. But i guess i need to respect myself and understand that he could never love me the way I want to be loved. which all I ask is to be respected!!!! So I broke it off saturday, I"m so alone! we share the same friends so I can't turn to anyone..... I miss his voice, his touch! BUT DAMMIT, I'M GONNA BE STRONG! WHY? BECAUSE ALL YOU WONDERFUL PEOPLE PUT STUFF IN MY HEAD TO REALIZE THAT HE'S NEVER GONNA STOP UNTIL I PUT MY FOOT DOWN!!! THANKS SO MUCH! YOUR WORDS OF ADVICE MEANS SO MUCH! I'M GLAD I FOUND THIS SITE! IT'S AWESOME!!!

okay, so my boyfriend of 3 years continously gets caught calling chat lines or porno lines. The subject has been argued a numerous of times and HE sTILL calls. he's cheated before with someone he met on these lines. I know i should leave him, but so in love, hoping he will change. My question is, why do men do this??? I give him everything, isn't it enough? will he ever stop??? please comfort me and tell me why and if he'll ever change????