I was dating someone for a year and a half, thought it was leading to marriage, and was completely shocked when she broke up with me about two and a half months ago.
As for her, when we first met, she had just come out of a nasty divorce. Although I tried to avoid being anyone's "transition" or "rebound" guy, I feel like I was hers (in retrospect).
Yes, she talked about marriage too. SOMETIMES.
But I think the pressure, and what she saw as the inevitablility of where a serious relationship was headed, caused her to have second thoughts.
In the end, as we broke up, she said a bunch of things that I didn't expect and didn't understand considering how long we had been together- that she loved me, but wasn't in love with me; that she loved me, but not enough to marry me, etc.
I feel like we were great together and still miss her immensely... So what to do? Everytime I tried speaking with her for 2 weeks after the break-up, she seemed like she could almost get back together with me... But by the end of the phone call, things were inevitably worse than before. So we stopped talking completely about a month ago...
I miss her. I want her back... I never felt this way about anyone before. Any hope for this at all? Or do I need to give her the time and space she never had after her divorce? And most of all, not have her feel any pressure? Will she come back on her own- realize how good things were and miss me? Thoughts???
