jayne

Thank you for reading my post... My ex and I are both business professionals in our late 20's. Doug and I dated for 5 months. He seemed to always want to be with me, but did not have strong feelings for me. We decided to date other people, and long story short, Doug and I decided to just be best friends. After about 2 months we started to see one another, kiss, and sleep together. 2 days ago I told Doug that I could not be friends with him anymore as I wanted more from a relationship. He said, "Are you sure you want to do this?" I told him that I felt like I desearved someone who loved me, had passion for me, and wanted to be with me. Enough is enough of the casual sex relationship. I does not make me feel good about myself and I can't be with you and move on with my life. What I really want is for Doug to realize how important I was to him and for him to contact me. Do you think this will happen, or should I completely write off this relationship and keep dating the nice person who I have been seeing for about 2 months?? Thank you for replying...I need help!

Thank you for reading my post! My ex and I are both professionals in our late 20's. Dated Doug for 5 months...he was my best friend and we got along very well, however he never told me how he felt about me. Someone else asked me out on a date so I said, "Doug, someone has asked me out. I really don't know them so I don't know if I want to go. If you don't have strong feelings for me I owe it to myself to start dating other people, if you do have strong feelings for me, you need to let me know." He said he did not know how he felt about me and I starting dating other people. About a month ago, I started dating a really great guy and told Doug we should just be friends. We'll long story made short....we maintained being best friends, but lately we started sleeping together again. After about 3 weeks of us sleeping together, I told him we could not be friends anymore as I want to move on and it breaks my heart everytime we end up in bed. He asked "Is this really what you want?" I said I wanted to be with someone who loves me, and not just have a casual sexual relationship. He said, "Well, I never thought it would come to this." My question: We see each other about 2 times a week at different places in our city. Do you think that he will realize what he had, start missing me, and call me. Or, should I completely write this relationship off and give this other nice guy that I am dating a chance? thank you thank you thank you for responding..I really need help!