I'm going to start this, I started today so.
Day 1 -
It's pretty painful, but in order for him to find himself, and I myself, before we can work on us together (and that's the plan, so we've discussed..) I think this is the best for us. I love him dearly, but he has issues and I mine, and this is probably going to give us a faster recovery with ourselves. I've already begun my changes, working out, got a new job today, cleaning more...things I just need to do. I've begun to pray again too, and while I considered myself apathiest, I'm starting to find my faith again.
Here's to hoping I can do this successfully, the first time around. No matter how difficult it is.