So I decided to take part in No Contact Monday evening, so yesterday was my first official day. I've managed to hold to no contact... however I can't say the same for him. He sent me a few pictures over Snap Chat and text me twice between Monday night & yesterday, but they weren't actual texts, they were just sending me two funny picture things. It makes it difficult; I opened the texts & his snap chats but didn't respond. I know I am trying to be strong and not respond, but its hard when he reaches out. He never reaches out to actually talk, it's usually been a snap or a funny text over the last months since November when things started falling apart. I feel like when I would reach out to talk it's like i would be annoying him, even though he said he wanted to stay friends. But then he does go and send me pictures from time to time, so there is that stupid part of me that has hope like: hey look he thought of me. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I don't want to do more damage by not responding. I had a really rough day; my grandfather's wife, who has been a part of our family for close to 14 years now went into the hospital last night with the final stages of congestive heart failure and it's not looking good. I'm hurting and my heart is breaking. I was in the hospital visiting her today and my mind was busy, but underneath it all I was just thinking about him and wanting to reach out to him and tell him what's going on and just have him be there. But ever since things got screwed up and he threw in the towel there has been this distance and weirdness between us. I'm trying to stick to my no contact and not reach out, but going through something hard right when I decide to start the no contact is definitely testing my strength. Also, he works in racing and is in Daytona. They have the duels tomorrow night and the big race coming up on Sunday; i know already that is going to be tough for me because we were always in constant contact when he was away with the race team and what was going on with him and them and my always wishing them luck. Again, I just want to have hope that we can at least form a real friendship again, or maybe I'll have a chance in the future one day, so I worry that no contact or not at least wishing him and the team good luck will do more damage. Like I don't care or am not thinking of him anymore, which is definitely not the case. Blah, I don't know.