Thanks for the posts. I think most of my fears are for the future. so i need to think more about what I want, I have a great career myself and have been in this industry for over 7 years... I think one of the posts thought i was young. I am 29. He has his MBA from NYU (probably why i am more confused with his choice of day job... he is so smart and has such potential. I broke up with himin anger after a fight when we were both just tired and stressed out. I felt like music would come first with him no matter what.
He admitted to me that he Was getting scared of the idea of marriage... He was the first one to bring it up and I didn't bother him about it but he felt like it was the next step and said more than he should have(Musicians always have big hearts) He says he now knows otherwise. He had seen an adorable little girl and thought of me and what our future could hold.
i have a question ... he said to me when i asked if he was going to work on a back up plan. that he does not need a back up plan because he is doing what he loves (day job and music) Both do interlink also.... and that sooner or later when you put so much work into your interests it will pay off. Do you agree...?