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For a year and a half now i've been good friends with this girl i know. Since the first day we met we got along great. We have the same interests, the same tastes, we're even thought to be a couple. That's just it, we're not. But i want us to be. About 9 months ago she started going out with a guy on her swim team that she's known for a while. It upset me a little, but i kept being a good friend and helped her out when she had no one else to talk to. Her bf was never there for her, but i was. I would and will do anything for her. I just want her to be happy, and it makes me happy when she's happy, no matter who she's with. Anyway, about a month and a half ago, they broke up, and like always, i was there for her. Since then, and especially for the past 2 weeks, we've been spending A LOT of time with eachother. And as much as i think she has feelings for me, she still gives me the impression that she just wants to be good friends. I just want us to become more than just good friends, and recently, i've been debating whether or not i should tell her how much i care for her. Like i wrote already, i care for her with all my heart, and i'll do anythig for her. Please help.

Thanks Chan, that's a good approach, i might just try that. Thanks a lot!

jax, thanks for the advice. Are ther any other suggestions, i can't sleep, i think about her all the time.

I feel your pain. I too want to ask out a good friend. What i plan to do is to tell her how much i care about her and my feelings for her, and wanting to be more than just "good friends." Good Luck!

i agree with vash, go alone. Try to get to know her better and see if you two would make a good match. Leave your friends behind, this is your time.

For a year and a half now i've been good friends with this girl i know. Since the first day we met we got along great. We have the same interests, the same tastes, we're even thought to be a couple. That's just it, we're not. But i want us to be. About 9 months ago she started going out with a guy on her swim team that she's known for a while. It upset me a little, but i kept being a good friend and helped her out when she had no one else to talk to. Her bf was never there for her, but i was. I would and will do anything for her. I just want her to be happy, and it makes me happy when she's happy, no matter who she's with. Anyway, about a month and a half ago, they broke up, and like always, i was there for her. Since then, and especially for the past 2 weeks, we've been spending A LOT of time with eachother. And as much as i think she has feelings for me, she still gives me the impression that she just wants to be good friends. I just want us to become more than just good friends, and recently, i've been debating whether or not i should tell her how much i care for her. Like i wrote already, i care for her with all my heart, and i'll do anythig for her. Please help.