Hi there have recently joined and what a great thread! feel i need to join this challenge, hubby up and left me 6 weeks ago for no reason, ive done the begging,pleading nothing is going to change his mind but i do want him back been together 5 years, have had no contact with him for 10 days now and it is getting easier no arguments etc, im going to start with 30 days see how i feel then, i dont have him on facebook but i have his sister so i see his likes etc, i feel the only way forward to getting some communication from him is this challenge, he has left loads of his stuff here so i will have to contact him at some point when im stronger!