kantketchme

Excluding the day she moved out, we went complete NC other then when she asked to drop some things off that were mine. About 30 days later we have been talking and hanging out, she says she wants try to work things out with a counselor- read my other thread for details.

would have been 4 years in December. I will be 24 in Nov and she turned 21 in May.

I hope so. She even said that she didn't feel any better after leaving. We both agreed that we need therapy. There are underlying issues that need to be addressed.

My NC story, Day approx 35 A little over a month ago we broke up. We had communication problems on both parts. The only contact I had with her was at about week 2 when she texted me asking where to put my class ring, I told her to put it in my mailbox. Flash forward to yesterday-She emailed me asking if she could get a few of her things out of my shed, I agreed. When see came over I stepped outside to let her know there were a few more things in our spare bedroom. I brought them down and we started talking. There was obvious distress on both our parts. She asked if she could come in to see our dog, I again agreed. One thing led to another and we ended up being physically romantic- No clear initiation on either part. After we continued to talk and she said she would like to take things slow and try again but that things would have to be different and she wasnt even sure if it would work. I asked her if she would like me to call her and she told me to call her after work today.