HerTragedy

me and this guy have been dating for a few months now, and at first i simply adored him. i still do very much enjoy him, until we get intimate. his *ahem* item, is definetly not what i expected, but i wasn't gonna let that effect us, it was a minor thing i could overlook. but even worse, he looses his erection much too often. like over half the time! i asked him if it was me, if i just didnt turn him on, but he said it's just a problem he's always had. i guess what im getting at, is bad sex (or lack therof) a terribly awful reason to stop seeing somebody? i still like him, but i need intimacy in my potential relationships. and if it is a reason, how do i let him down?

thank you guys so much for helping me out. thing is, i dont think even he knows he's gay if he is. like i dont think he'd hiding it..i just think he hasnt come to the conclusion yet.

Not to be stereotypical, but my boyfriend is showing alot of signs of what I might consider to be homosexual. He dresses, like superb. He's very fashionable, and dresses like a rock star. He has commented on guys he thinks are hot. Also, he's very sensative, all the time. Ive dated plenty of guys and they are sensative too, but when the time comes they know how be sexual and aggressive too. He's never like that. He has very feminine manurisms, such as crossing his legs and the way he holds his ciggarette. Worst part is, of the times we've had sex, he's lost his erection probably over half of the time. I don't want to aggravate anybody, by making assumptions about how gay people are. I realize theres guy who appear very straight and arent. I just get this vibe from him, and I really need to know. help!