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Boom, you are working yourself up too much. Its a minimum of 10 days.

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keep in mind, the Dr. can prescribe a "morning after pill" that will keep her concieving. Of course, many people have moral issues with abortion. I don't really have an opinion on it...

I read somewhere that odds are somewhere around 1 in 180. On the flipside, I have a friend who used the withdraw method and got his GF pregnant...however...I can say I have been using te same method as you for 4 years with no problem with my wife. However, she is on the pill

you are your own worst critic. I suspect they are not nearly as bad as you think. I had a crooked front tooth, I never smiled, was embarrssed, could not talk to girls...etc.. Everyone said it was barely noticeable. I finally got it fixed...and found out it was no where near as bad as I thought. Hey...exercise can never hurt.

Reading the post again...I stress you should consider asking someone YOU like. You really limit the nice guys who may ask if you wait around to be asked. Go find that nice guy (and since you are just starting the semester, you have months before a dance) and ask him!

Yes..from a visual perspective...I won't lie and say that the brittanty spears thing doesn't get me all bothered. True be told, while that may be more of a short term type of interest, I would take a sweet doe eyed innocent girl with natural beauty any day. While cliche....be yourself. As a guy, I can say nothing turns me off more than someone trying to be something they are not. By the way...nothing wrong with asking a guy to the dance...that didn't happen much in my day but I wish it had.

SheI think you guys are certainly right...I've brought it up a hundred times...she says she "cannot change her spots"

I have been married about 1 year and a half. I love my wife dearly...but I feel so desperate to cheat. We have what appears to most to be everything, we just bought a home, live rather well, and everything looks perfect...but it is not. She is 24, I am nearly 29. Both white collar and reasonably attractive. She has almost no desire for sex. She gives in...to please me...but it is a mere appeasement. She has been like this for several years. She lays there, nothing but missionary, no foreplay, nothing elase involving hands, mouths, nothing. It is like sex with a sleeping person. I walk down the street and see women, I would do anything to be single again and to have an intimate and sensual sexual relationship. I have begged for years for us to see a counselor, but she just says...they always say the same thing. "you have a problem, but they never say how to fix it." I have been asking 3 years. She has begun to sort of let go of her figure. I am still attracted to her, but I fear she is physically not the person I was attracted to. I know that makes me sound awfully shallow, but...it is how I feel. I do not want to divorce, but I just don't think that she can ever be the person I desire sexually. How bad does that make me? I have resigned myself to a relationship that will never fufill me sexually. So many other things she offers me, yet I can't seem to get over the fact that my sex life is literally having sex with a warm spot, that just happens to be my wife.

Do you have anyone at a church or the like that you can counsel with?

I think given the nature of your post, that you need to realize the seriousness of your plight and get in touch with a person who can help you.

they were not lying when they said the first year is the hardest....I went through the same thing, and the irritation lasted about a year. Hang in there

This is unbelieveably common, especially at your age. He is right in some ways, masturbation does often help women to get to know their bodies better...often leading to orgasm. My spouse has a similar problem, yet finds it a bit easier after a drink. I suspect er problem is not physically being incapable of orgasming, rather that she may have some pent up issues that prevent it when she is sober. Do you think you may be similar?