my ex-boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and dated for 2 and a half years. he's 25 and i'm 21. we just broke up 2 months ago, b/c he said he didn't want to be in a committed relationship right now. we still were doing everything that b/f and g/f do except without the title till about 2 days ago, when i found out for the past 2 weeks he's been dating a 19 year old! i just want some advice on how to get him back and wanting to be in a committed relationship,,,,or is it just hopeless???