learner75

I heard from an advanced poster on another forum that 99% of the time reconciling is NOT AT ALL possible if the dumper is the girlfriend/female, because girls always let their guys be the last to know (i.e. they told them only when they have actually moved on - or have someone under their wings). Where does the stats come from? Is that true??? Also, I want to know where can I find definitive step-by-step how to guide to making up/getting back together in this forum? Maybe NC guide or something? Thanks.