metal911

Please read my post from last week 'It makes no sense!!!'. Same thing happened only with me i was with her for 2 yrs then one day 'i dont feel anything for you'. Thats all I got, its been a week and still NC with her. It didnt make sense, all I need is an explanation cos to me you cant just stop feeling anything for someone after 2 yrs. But remember, its not about you, its about what she wants and there is nothing you can do but force yourself to breathe, get out of bed and focus on yourself. Its been just over a week since she left me, ive gone through my grieving and depression, trouble with the law, acting stupid. You need to do that its all part of the process so live in that. But eventually you come to a place where i am at the moment, I can look at it objectively and say well if I was in the situation that my ex was, I would of done the same thing, I would have hurt more if she wasnt honest with me. Look at it and learn from it, what have you learnt about yourself? What were your weaknesses that you can work on? Mine was I loved too much, unconditionally through all of her mistakes and didnt see what was in front of me.' Stand back and live YOUR life. What can you do to learn from this?