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  1. Day 1 (end of play) I got two texts off her. One asking for my sons child maintenance which I didn't reply to and then one another hour or so later about my son putting his own shoes on correctly (he is only 18 months bless). I left it a few more hours and then rang her to speak about our sons achievement. I could instantly tell she was off with me so asked her what was up, she said me getting in contat for no reason in which I explained I just wanted to talk about our son. I said I wouldn't bother though as she is now obviously back with her latest ex who doesn't like her speaking to me and hung up. She texted me again so I rang in whih she just turned around and called me a "wanker" - one thing about me (whih is a bad thing really) is I will ALWAYS defend myself. I told her if I was a wanker, then what is her boyfriend who see's her as a game and a sex object. I then went on to tell her I hope she enjoys the next time she is around his family and they ALL know her business and he can heck up on her at any time (whih he was bragging to me about earlier). Since then we haven't spoke... I'm a penis and just keep pushing her away. Don't see why she just can't be civil for sake of our child. She is only ever OK when I am with her in person.
  2. Day 1 Well today will be my first day. I have been split up with my ex since March 1st. She left me for a mate she had been seeing behind my back and recently split up with him although it looks like they will get back together. Despite this, she is the mother of my child and I would still like to sort things out with her. Things have been messy since the split with her coming back to me saying she loves and misses me and I have been throwing myself at her. I have just text her now saying "I understand she is confused but I'm going to back off completely to give her the space to think things through". I intend on only speaking to her when it comes to my son and even so that will be through text. In the past I have only managed to go 24hours with NC and always think about doing it using my son as an excuse. Now is the time to stay strong and let her realise what she is missing out on!
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